Anyways, maybe he saw or heard you do something. I've tried everything to help him see that he does this but he still doesn't care. And here I was, thankful to him for taking me in as his own, providing a roof over my head, and clothes on my back. talk to your mother maybe can she convince him? For a few years my dad has stopped taking to me. Every morning when he haves us he wastes. She said that he was such a bastard to me, only to hurt her. How do you talk to him when he approaches you? He'll talk to my sister before he will talk to me. Looks like you're using new Reddit on an old browser. im sorry to hear it, im not sure really he could be depressed and taking his anger out on you? He reminisces about the earliest years of my life. He also gets angry when I expose anxiety I am feeling. I also try to hate him. It really doesnt seem right that he treats you like that, especially if you haven't done anything to deserve it! I speak to him when I want to see my siblings (whom I adore more than life itself). i don't even know what to do. He does this by staring into space like he's in his own little world. Good luck, i really do hope that your situation gets better soon ♥ x, Dont listen to Long Hardbeef. No, it is certainly not healthy. He lives in the same house as me and will only say a few words to me and they are always questions or shouting at me. When they are kids, they will be doting you. Almost the same thing happens to me. Do you shout at him like he does you? What do you think of the answers? Children grow up. A million and one emotions ran through my head — a thousand questions for him, a thousand more for my mom, and even a couple for my “real” father came to mind. If she feels the same and recognises that you are being treaded unfairly, then both of you together can approach your dad about it and try to get to the root of the problem.
I would lean in to kiss him goodnight and he would pull away with disgust.
He feels left out, since u keep talking everyone up?? Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday. When I am with him, it is still the same “daddy’s princess” act, but I’ve learned to cringe to myself and smile to the world. and then wait for you to proceed as if you're a little kid who said "look mom no hands!" Personally i think that you need to put some effort into it, ask him about his day and things like that, im sure if you would even tell him how you feel about all of this he'd realise what hes doing is hurting you, and stop and pay more attention in the future. I'm a tenured professor at a major research university, currently in charge of a department with 500+ majors and 21 faculty... so that's exactly the same, right? She is always against me having anything she sees as positive.? Pertinence. You can sign in to give your opinion on the answer. What do I do?
I didn’t hear it from either of my parents, I found out by doing my own snooping around old photos, letters, etc. If you would like to use all features of this site, it is mandatory to enable JavaScript. I wish-" but then dad interrupted halfway by speaking about the rugby game which was on yesterday (England vs. France). The latest example was when I was talking to my mum about my friend's new dog. Today's vlog was a mellow one full of family time. The latest example also happened this morning. For a few years my dad has stopped taking to me. He lives in the same house as me and will only say a few words to me and they are always questions or shouting at me. I hated that feeling. i don't even know what to do. She authored a syndicated advice column in a lot of newspapers, in competition with her sister, Dear Abby. Join Yahoo Answers and get 100 points today. I don't know what I have done for him to hate me. I will get in trouble. Things “clicked” and made sense in a heartbreaking sort of way, while other things fell apart and unraveled at a pace I couldn’t keep up with. But in all the years of physical, verbal, and emotional abuse- he never used the fact that I was not his. The interruptions only happen when I'm talking to someone else. If we are playing tennis and I ask him if the ball was in or out, he doesn't answer me. http://www.google.com/search?client=opera&rls=en&q... What can we do with parents who don't remember whats its like to be young and in love?
This is one of the reasons I've gone VLC with my parents. My parents are split up. In public, to the outside world, I was “daddy’s little girl.” I was his princess and I was perfect. And I'm proud of what he's doing but he has no limit. You're probably too young to remember Ann Landers. My mam starts arguing and all hell breaks loose. i am juststayblunted and i approve of this message:D. you can't really do anything if he keeps on ignoring you. I would try desperately to please him in every realm of the high expectations he set for me, only to be ignored or put down. His girlfriend has been trying to help him see when he does this (it happens with his friends too, which worries me as I don't want his friends to get tired of him) but he still doesn't get it. You know, the ones with the kicking, and punching, and beating; the ones with an inescapable exertion of power and control; the ones where every insult known to man was second nature and every possible thing that could be used against my mother was.
Whenever I talk, my dad either ignores me or interrupts me.